So I don’t know what exactly what it is about guys in my life lately. Maybe it’s that I am incredibly happy now and they see it and want to be apart of it, or maybe they are idiots…or maybe they just realize what a balla’ I was….SO this I do declare…frankly it’s strangely unbecoming.
Here is a memo for the men: (me getting up on my soap box and clearing my throat!)
I get a message on the Book of Face from a man who frankly just made me irritated. Lets just call him Jock for time being. I sent a response back stating I could send him an email regarding the event if he wished. Then he calls me 2 days later. I didn’t pick up. Although his voicemail he left was pretty entertaining! I will let you read (since I cannot give you it in audio).
Mind you I made a few interjections: “Hey CatMan. It’s Jock…I know it’s been a while. (and I look like a total d-bag) I was wanting to call you regarding the Special Olympics opportunity (just because I know you are so involved and you are the easiest person I can access at this point in time…) Right now, I’m on my way to Bloomington for the weekend (in a whiny voice: I’m driving and I need someone to talk to…wahhh!). Just thought you know we could “catch-up” (sarcasm–because I actually care how you are doing) You left some ice cream at my apartment (and I had to eat it before it went bad! Sorry!) and yeah just was thinking of you (whether you changed your mind about the initial question of “giving it up”…)…so call me back at your convenience please. Thanks.”
Let me preface this situation a bit. I met him as a volunteer for Special Olympics, we have a good mutual friend in contact, and we went out on 1 date! He is 300 to my 100. After that date, there was some physical chemistry but, nothing more than that honestly. He would never give me the time of day. We hung out a handful of times past that point and we had a mutual love of ice cream. Love at first scream! (I scream! You scream! We all scream for ICE CREAM!) Riiiggghhht. Well essentially one of the nights we hung out literally the last night and he asks me “So when are you going to give it up to me?” I proceeded to give him a puzzled look and said “UH NEVER!” and left. What the heck is that?? PS still haven’t returned his phone call! Doesn’t it not suck when no one gives you the time of day? TEAR….
Next, I went out on a date a few months back. Let’s for time being call this one Motorcycle Jac. One date and some chit-chat here and there. That was about it. No second date. hmm…OK. Then out of the blue I get a random text “Hey hottie how’s it going? :)” um…who the heck is this?…”Motorcycle Jac!”…..uh…”Hey, I got to go…”. Needless to say if you can’t realize that’s not how to court a woman, then you are NEVER going to get it!
An on again off again friend, shot me a text on my day of birth. It was very nice but, at 9am on a Sunday morning? This was atypical of Doubting T. But, it was cheerful, wonderful and nice voluntarily hearing from him. Does he actually care? OR is he toying with my emotions? That I may never know but I will take it for what it’s worth. We were close friends until a few things got caught up in the way. Just like it always does in life.
Then, Monday night I get a call from an old friend whom was just desperate for a talk! He called me, then I called him. Literally, he says I just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years and I am kind of down. Were going to refer to him as “Desperate”. No play on words really…I am in need of a cheerful friend to lift me up (AKA BOOOTTTYYY CAAALLLL). I was busy so we had a nice conversation via phone and that was done. Desperate was done!
BOYS! What the heck is your deal? Quit being a Jock, Motorcycle Jac, Doubting T, or a Desperate and smell the roses! If you have a really great girl sitting in front of you then TELL HER. If you aren’t interested, then HONESTLY make your intention’s known, don’t just assume. We all know what happens when you assume….(‘you make an ass out of you and me’ for all those who didn’t know!) Keep us posted of your feelings. There is no harm or foul in making it known early on! How ’bout a little respect? Women aren’t stupid. No one is going to think of you any less of a man unless you start exhibiting signs of the males described in this post. GOT IT? I sure hope so! 🙂
Thanks! Other than that life is good! 😉
Sincerely THE CatMan