Check out my latest post on Anchor Drop. I started a fitness challenge today. I am planning on sharing my progress, struggles, and such with it. Stay tuned if you dare! This time I am putting it all out there…
“A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.”
― Elbert Hubbard
There are some friends that just hang around. They might not be consistently there in your life and yet they enter in and out when you need them the most. Like a woven ribbon, in and out during periods of your life to which they need you or you need them. Visualize.
When you look at your life and the plethora of situations, persons to which have broken your heart, those who have supported you through all of it….those who have been there when a family member passes away and it is hard. Those who are there to listen, provide advice, pray with you, and those who understand. A friend might not be there for all of your life, but those who are there through enough of the worst times and the good times will see your character and growth. When you aren’t at your best and when you are at your best–that friend could care less as all they want to do is be there for you to love on you. They chose to love you anyways.
A friend accepts you as you are when you meet them. A friend understands you are as much of a work in progress as they are. A true friend will be honest with you and be there when you need them the most. A friend is able to love on you when far away. A friend finds a way to remind you (when you aren’t feeling special or particularly positive about yourself) that you matter to them and “…without YOU friend, WITHOUT YOU, my life would be out of sorts.” A friend will keep you in check when you are being a fool. A friend will call you out when you aren’t being the best you can be, yet they will lovingly help you get to where you CAN be the best version of yourself at that moment in time if you allow them to help. Whether this friend physically, spiritually, mentally or emotionally is connected with you (or all of the above)–whether you see them every day or not–a good friend is hard to come by.
Hang on to those friends when you find them; the ones who will love you no matter what you have become, continue to be, or desire to be. They are our life line. They are our sanctity, pleasure, grace. Those relationships are the very glue that will help mold you and keep you growing. Never take these friends for granted.
Reciprocation is also advised. If you are given an opportunity where your friend needs you–be there for them as much as you are able to be. It is in that rhythmic give and take of your friendship to which both parties will develop even more respect for one another…you will begin to have a relationship with this person which will mutually become even more meaningful. So even though friends might not be there through it all, they might desire to be in the end. That is the beauty of friendship. It is the very foundation to which all things meaningful begin.
I challenge you today to evaluate your friendships. Evaluate who is meaningful to you, who you haven’t been such a good friend to, and those who have the potential to be even more to you. It will only enrich your life further.
Posted above is a beautiful story that everyone should take a few moments to see. It is a story about brotherly love. Conner and Cayden Long are brothers. Cayden has Cerebral Palsy. Conner has included his brother in everything. He doesn’t have to, but he really wants to include him. This is through the heart of a 9-year-old child.
How much better this world would be if we all thought to include each other as Conner has done with Cayden. Today, I want to challenge you to look at situations and at others through the heart of a child. They look with such hope and innocence; with such love.
Let us remember this challenge today.
First thing you might notice: theme change. Comments are welcomed! AND oh the other good news, I have made it to 100!!! YAY! Yes one hundred silly! No joke…BLOG POSTS not AGE! Geesh! And got a Twitter account. I think I felt your jaws just drop…FOLLOW ME @ BanditMetRoses
Well today I was talking to a good buddy of mine today regarding advertising. Advertisers are getting more and more clever in the way things are presented to their “followers” or maybe just potential customers. Take for an instance this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rIu5B3Fsstg. Notice anything interesting about it? Go ahead watch it again….do you really think that this happened? Or was this person hired to demonstrate the “GoPro” brand? Cool, huh?
This is the “GoPro” sponsored highlight reel from Summer X-Games 17: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MkgMXkayvQk. Since it was sponsored, you don’t really feel like it is a traditional advertising method which come across more boring and blah. This one seemingly isn’t so forced because it allows the story of the athlete and just seeing a “trick through their eyes” as intriguing! It makes you want to see how they do it. Next component is “why” they do it! One can build a segment literally just like that! In a snap! And guess what? They didn’t put a commercial in there once! So you got all the info and exposure to the ad with out the annoying “Billy Bob Jo here! We can vid-E-O tape you doing trick after trick with our BRAND NEW GoPro….yada yada yada…” It’s invasive! So, advertising people had to get much smarter and “invite” the consumer to learn more! Inviting is better because then if it’s too much you have control over how much is too much.
This is one tactic they use to continue to reach out to their consumers. In today’s market place, a business’ success is based on how much they engage with their consumers balanced with ROI (return on investment). AKA Spend money to make money. This can be said with any field, line of work, or product. How do they find that out? Well they test it!
Take you as an example. Take your blog for a second and think about the ways you engage your readers? What do you find other’s actually are interested in or maybe what AREN’T they interested in? What is your “target” for readers? Why do you write what you write? What’s your message? Well did you just realize that this blog is now an extension of you? You are actually advertising for YOU through your blog. The whole point is to gain followers and find like-minded people….right? It can help you find a community of support and friends. You might not do it for money or anything, but pure pleasure yet, it is still advertising YOUR thoughts, YOUR frustrations, and YOUR life or your stories.
Interesting how advertising happens everyday without a second glance or notice. Are we becoming numb to “over stimulation”? I think that is part of it. I also think we are so quick to put so much out “there” for people that we forget to have a personal life. There is no filter to the information provided! You might be saying defensively, “But I still have time to do all my chores, feed the kids, and run them to soccer practice…” I understand that 100%. But do you have time for relaxing? For peace to infiltrate your mind and heart? If you do, then BRAVO to you! Balancing all of that is awesome! We need balance…
One of my favorite quotes: “We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence. See how nature – trees, flowers, grass – grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence…We need silence to be able to touch souls.” Mother Teresa
Here is just an example of a second approach that is even better. By recognizing love and good in a physical sense of others…isn’t that a novel idea? Silence carries a negative connotation. We think because we aren’t doing something going a mile and a half a minute, things aren’t right. But, it is in silence to which creativity is alive! Now my challenge to my followers is this, how can we translate that to the online world? How can we see through the noise and see the good? How do YOU test this to see if it works? I want to know how you find the silence in this constant stream of “tweet tweet” Seems like quite the paradox doesn’t it….well that’s why it’s a challenge! What are your thoughts?
❤ The CatMan